As I grow older, I find that I am getting a little better about not caring what the world thinks of me.
My goal as a person and a human being is to develop an attitude that is healthy and strong. I don’t want to care what people think about me. Let me clarify that statement: I DO care what my loved ones think. I do care what my friends think. But I do not want to dwell upon anything negative that outsiders may think about me.
On the other hand, if it so happens that other people have positive things to say about me, then I want to embrace those ideas. I just want to dismiss negative ideas, and not allow them to penetrate my shield.
A friend and I were discussing this topic a while back. It seems that in order to truly not care at all, that one must become a sociopath. Is this a true statement?
How can I not care what people think about me? Is there a healthy way to do it, without becoming a monster?
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By telling them to fuck off!!!
You gotta take the good with the bad.
You can just have the good.
I think at the end of the day, you’ll always care, even if its good or bad.
If you have acceptance for different points of view, you can accept that someone sees your choices differently than you do. I can accept that they don’t like me or my choices, by understanding that they are entitled to their choices and opinions and I am entitled to mine. Both are equally valid, but theirs don’t influence me and mine don’t affect them. I honor their choices and support their right to be different from me, without judging.
I don’t think its possible to not care at all what the rest of the world thinks of you, because thats part of being human. I believe that’s how we’re meant to be, because thats what motivates most of what we do well in life. Being fit and healthy, showing that you can provide for your family, appearing happy, appearing charitable and helpful, coming of as nice and caring, being hardworking, the list goes on and on. I think its fine and healthy to care what other’s opinions of you are, its better than being shameless. But its not good to want to be what someone else wants you to be if it changes the person you pride yourself in being known as… if that makes sense. I think its great that you’re learning to care less and less about what your friends and people think of you. Strive to be someone who YOU would be proud of.
i don’t think becoming a sociopath is the answer,you just have to accept you have no control over others,i care too much what people think and that’s not healthy,i don’t care what all people think just certain ones and that’s only because i deem them Superior to me but that’s just my perception it may not even be true its says more about my self esteem issues than them being Superior somehow but hey we live in a society that is very concerned with appearance i didn’t make up the rules but i gotta abide by them
Bill Cosby Said something like
He dosn’t know the secret to success, but the secret to failure is to try and please everybody.
Know who you are, like yourself. Once this is true, others opinions may not matter so much to you.
…everyone on the physical planet has the capability to be insensitive about some stuff occasionally. What you think about yourself will probably be more important then what anybody else thinks about you though reasonably. You’ll have to love and like yourself before anyone else will. Let the insensitive negative stuff people create and bounce off of you, to be deflected away from you without any uncertainty. I don’t allow mentally incapable people to surround me with bull crap and insensitive nonsense otherwise. How absurd that would truly be if I did!!! Hang with positively influenced people my friend,….and then you too will be positively influenced.( “birds of a feather syndrome” )
You can not have it both ways..No matter what anyone says, they really do care what is thought or said about them…You have to take the good with the bad. You will never please everyone so you just have to learn how to not let what others think, bother you.